Posts Tagged ‘life’

To Stay Single is GOOD :)

People think when a woman stays single at certain number of age, there’s something wrong with her.

I am very sure that this way of thinking is WRONG!!! WHY?

Because, in this world there’s no one correct ANSWER to this matter.
Why don’t they look and think in a different way, instead of that Unfair and OUT DATED way of thinking.

When they want to look further, they will see that Staying single is a lot better than marrying a WRONG Person. Women are precious so when a woman decided to stay in a man side. The man should feel lucky. WHY? Because that woman wants to dedicate herself to that man, so that woman deserved to be loved instead of being treated badly or regarded as second class.

Marrying the WRONG man means that a woman life will be miserable for good, until she decided to leave him or the man change which is nearly impossible.

Walking through this life by staying single is an advantage and there’s more opportunity to advance a woman life. A woman can live a happy single life of being independent. She will have full control over her own life. She does not have to worry of being scold or beaten by man who said that he is marrying her in the name of love but in fact he treats her like a property. She will have all of the time in her life for herself.

So, this is my message to all women out there, be happy and enjoy your single life. Don’t feel miserable; instead be thankful to GOD for being single and FREE.

I know that GOD loves you and I so much so that He never let us marrying the WRONG man. When the time has come and the Right man is available, I’m very sure that GOD will show us that Right man. After all to get married is to make a Godly family.

Who cares of not being able to have kids in women at certain age, after all we are living in a modern era where technology is in its advance stage, and with that technology it is not impossible not to give birth at certain age.

The main issue is that when a woman gives birth to a child, she should be more concerned if she would be able to give that child a decent family where the child would be able to grow up and be a good person in God’s standard.

So Women, never lower your standard in choosing the right man for you. In other words, never let yourself being fooled by the WRONG man.

Remember that you will be better off of being single rather to marry the WRONG man. Don’t let yourself being trap in an ugly marriage. Be wise by never believing in anything comes out from a man’s mouth but watch closely to what he does instead.


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Colours of the Wind

When I listen to this song, I’m moved by its lyric, how much we have thresh the earth, and how often we don’t respect others as people. All the wars and fights happen around the world reminds us that we need to ask ourselves if we have respect others as people. All the natural disasters happen around us reminds us that we need to ask ourselves if we have take care this earth as we should.

We can make this world a better place to live and we also have to remember we only own one earth to live in together in harmony.

Enjoy the song… if you want you can sing it along…


Here’s the lyric

You think I’m an ignorant savage
And you’ve been so many places
I guess it must be so
But still I cannot see
If the savage one is me
How can there be so much that you don’t know?
You don’t know …

You think you own whatever land you land on
The Earth is just a dead thing you can claim
But I know every rock and tree and creature
Has a life, has a spirit, has a name

You think the only people who are people
Are the people who look and think like you
But if you walk the footsteps of a stranger
You’ll learn things you never knew you never knew

Have you ever heard the wolf cry to the blue corn moon
Or asked the grinning bobcat why he grinned?
Can you sing with all the voices of the mountains?
Can you paint with all the colors of the wind?
Can you paint with all the colors of the wind?

Come run the hidden pine trails of the forest
Come taste the sunsweet berries of the Earth
Come roll in all the riches all around you
And for once, never wonder what they’re worth

The rainstorm and the river are my brothers
The heron and the otter are my friends
And we are all connected to each other
In a circle, in a hoop that never ends

How high will the sycamore grow?
If you cut it down, then you’ll never know
And you’ll never hear the wolf cry to the blue corn moon

For whether we are white or copper skinned
We need to sing with all the voices of the mountains
We need to paint with all the colors of the wind

You can own the Earth and still
All you’ll own is Earth until
You can paint with all the colors of the wind

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Today I’d like to share the sermon of This Sunday morning. The sermon was discussing about Jesus Parable of a Pharisee and a Tax Collector in Luke 18 : 10 – 14:

18:10 “Once there were two men who went up to the Temple to pray: one was a Pharisee, the other a tax collector.

18:11 The Pharisee stood apart by himself and prayed, ‘I thank you, God, that I am not greedy, dishonest, or an adulterer, like everybody else. I thank you that I am not like that tax collector over there.

18:12 I fast two days a week, and I give you one tenth of all my income.’

18:13 But the tax collector stood at a distance and would not even raise his face to heaven, but beat on his breast and said, ‘God, have pity on me, a sinner!’

18:14 I tell you,” said Jesus, “the tax collector, and not the Pharisee, was in the right with God when he went home. For everyone who makes himself great will be humbled, and everyone who humbles himself will be made great.”

In the parable the Pharisee is a picture of a person who looks as if he is an honorable person who has a high spiritual standard. He thought of himself as a good person and better than any body else. He has this idea since he thought that by doing all of his religion rituals have made him a better person than others. Therefore, he thinks that it’s fine to look down on others, since he thought that God must have been satisfied with all the rituals that he has done in accordance to his religion. He is so proud that he thinks he is sinless before God. He also thinks that God will put him right for all the good deeds that he has done.

On the other hand, the tax collector is a picture of a sinful person who seeks for God’s mercy and forgiveness. He humbled himself before God because he realizes that he is a sinful person who needs God’s grace of forgiveness.

At the end of the story, we can see what Jesus has to say about them. He said that God put the tax collector in the right with God and not the Pharisee.

From this parable, we learn that once we know that we are sinner who needs God’s grace of forgiveness. To receive God’s forgiveness, we need to confess our sins to God and repent.

When we do this then God will give us freedom from our sins. Moreover, we will then feel the presence of God in our life and our heart will be filled will a feeling of longing to do God’s will. In the end we will be able to glorified God’s name through our whole life.

One last thing that I can see from this is that as a sinner we need to humble ourselves before God by confessing our sins.


God bless you all.

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My Jesus

My Jesus, you are the most precious for me.

I will never want to give you up or even to think of exchanging you with anything.

You are the most precious than any jewel.

My Jesus, you are the most beautiful in my life.

In my heart you are the dearest.

In my life I just want to shine for you.

Help me Jesus to always shine for you

Nothing and no one can be compared to you

The beauty of the world will fade

Great and rich people will be gone

Human love will end.

But your love is eternal.

Human love is not unconditional.

But you love me and died for me when I was still a sinner.

You redeem me from my sins.

No one can free me from my sins, but only you.

You touch my heart like no one ever touches me.

Your love is the greatest

Your love is what every heart needs

The day I know you is the happiest day of my life.

Since that’s the day I am healed and freed.

That would be the day that I never want to forget.

My Jesus, you are truly the most beautiful gift from GOD to man.

To know you is to know God’s love.

To know you is to know God himself.

To know you is the greatest gain in my life.

Let all praises be onto you.

My Jesus, you are the KING of kings.

Your kingdom will never end.

I just want to be with you.

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In the society, a woman at certain age who has not yet found a husband would be a shame to the woman herself. This kind of society judgment is very dangerous when a woman does not really know about what is right and what is wrong.

What I really mean is that a lot of time, a woman does a lot of foolish things which degraded her own status. I say this thing not because I am being a feminist who is looking for the right to be equal. For me feminism is not important because from the beginning God has created woman equal as man but with different tasks and role. And I write this thing because I just want more women to respect themselves.

To be a woman is a privilege not a curse. Why? Because a woman is the one who can touch others with her tenderness. A woman is gift from God to mankind. She is a mother who gives birth of the next generation. She is a mother who has responsibility to educate children of the future generation. Her love to the children will always be remembered. She is the manager of her family. Her family well-being depends strongly on her wisdom. The future of this world is in the hand of all women. Why? She is the one who determine the success of her husband career and the success of her children life. Can you now see how important and noble the role of a woman. This is the reason to respect and love yourselves. When you do not love and respect yourselves then nobody would do so for you.

A woman does not really need a husband because a woman is created to be the helper of a man. But when as a woman decided to get married it’s the woman who really need to choose to what kind of man she would really want to be with. Don’t just throw yourselves into who ever man available for you just because you are being desperate to get married. Remember the role that you are having is a serious and truly noble. Be wise in choosing the right man to be your husband. Listen and keep alert to any trick of a man who tries to get your heart. You need to consider everything you hear if it’s the truth or just a lie, so that you will never be fooled. Trust fully to the word of God and ignore any persuasion that is too good to be true. Remember that you are precious to GOD. Ignore any statement that degraded your status as a woman. The true love that you are looking for will only be found in God’s love. Remember that you are precious to GOD and GOD loves you. Remember that man is only a sinful human and he is not perfect in anyway including in loving you. Therefore, trust God rather than man if you want to avoid regret.


God loves you all.

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Being Salt

Each one of us only can do a small part.

24 hours that’s all the hour that we have in our life each day.

That’s not much.

70 years may be the age to live upon this earth.

So many things that have to be done.

So little time we have.

If all has to be done using our own might.

We certainly want to give up.

We don’t have that much time and strength.

Each one of us only an ordinary person who just try to do what we have to do.

Just a small part that we can do in this world.

We should be glad to know that we just need to play our small part faithfully in God’s big plan.

Coz we only need to become Salt in this earth.

Small part that we play that will give meaning to our surrounding and to every person that we meet.

All in all we also should be glad that all of our labor that we did for Him will not be in vain and we can just trust it in God’s hand.

We trust that He will make prefect of everything in His time.

To know this has encouraged us to do our best and keep on going.

Let’s just do our best for the Glory of our heavenly Father.

Our labor will not be in vain.

The reward will certainly greater than what we need to do in this temporary life.

The joy would pay-off all of the troubles and tears in doing God’s work.

Let’s not doing our part to look for human praise and worldly glory.

God’s praise to our labor shall be our aim.

Can you imagine how happy a person is when on the Final Judgment day, the King of kings invites him or her to His feast?

Let’s pray to God for His wisdom when doing His work.

Let’s do His work with fear and respect to Him.

Let our heart filled with joy and thanksgiving when doing His work.

Be Glory to Our Heavenly Father, forever and ever.


Have a blessed day…

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Everybody heart wants to be loved and to love. That would include you and I.

The most love that everyone is looking for is a True Love.

When we think again, whatever we do in this life is to reach or in search of this True Love. For example, a man who is a husband as well as a father will try his best to take care of his family by giving his attentions as well as financial supports. Why? It’s because he tries to show his love in return for love he received or should I say for a hope that he will get love as much or hopefully more love from his family. A child will do the same like this man. A child will also try to do good by following the standard set by his or her parents. He or she is hoping that at the end he or she will deserve to receive love from his or her parents.

However, in this life, most of us will find ourselves has been disappointed to the result that the love that we give to the one that we hope to return it is never being able to give it back the way we hope. And sometimes, love will have to stop at one point because of separation or because of death. This experience will then leave a scar in our heart. Some will just think that there’s no love and they decided to live his or her life without love. Their life will then just become an empty and dry life. Some will just simply think that there’s no point to go on in this life because he or she just can’t stand the emptiness in his or her heart. In the end, he or she may decide to end his or her own life. Others will just keep on looking the true everlasting love in somebody such as from a friend, beloved friend, parents, and children. Sometimes, they try to find it in something such as from wealth, status, power, pets, hobbies etc. This long search for the true love will then be a very tiring and endless experience in their life. All of these attempts to find the true love in the end will just end in an empty temporary stuff, which never able to quench the thirst of a longing heart for a true love.

So, why is it so difficult to find this one true love? What kind of love is one really need to get? From the example and discussion above we can conclude that the kind of true love that we are longing and looking for is the kind of true love that is

  • eternal,
  • indefinite,
  • sincere,
  • forgiving,
  • unconditional,
  • give you freedom and
  • life.

Gee, don’t you think this kind of love does not exist in this perishable world. Yes, that’s true we can’t find that kind of love in this world no one and nothing would be able to give that kind of love. This is the reason why the wise king Solomon said: “I have seen everything done in this world, and I tell you, it is all useless. It is like chasing the wind.” (Ecclesiates 1: 14)

So does this mean that we have to forget about searching the true love that we long for? NO. Why? Because there’s one who has this kind of true love. And he has shown his great love to this world and to every person in this world which includes you and I, when he died on the cross for you and I. Do you know who is this person? He is JESUS CHRIST the SON of the One and only ALMIGHTY GOD. I have found that true love that my heart has been longing for. You will receive this true love as well if you want.

And if you think you want to experience this True Love, you just need to pray in His Name and open your heart for His true love. Asked him to forgive your sins, believe and receive him as your personal savior. As you say Amen I am sure you will find that your heart will be rejoicing and your heart will be filled and quenched from the thirst of the true love from his river of love.

That’s all for now… Have a blessed day.

God love you all…

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